When traveling through Europe, it’s important to understand some cultural differences if you want to be a respectful traveler. There are around 44 different countries in Europe, and each one has its own customs, traditions, and cultures. Knowing the more subtle cultural differences of your destination will help you be a more respectful and engaged traveler.
True for Most of Europe
While each of the 44 countries has its own cultures and customs, there are a few things that are almost universally different between American culture and European culture. No matter your destination, it’s best to consider these three things:
Volume: Generally, across Europe, the volume in public spaces is quieter. Americans, especially from big families or bustling cities, tend to speak at a louder volume in all situations. Be mindful of your volume in public spaces, especially in enclosed spaces like trains. Europeans prefer a lower volume in public spaces to respect others’ bubbles.
Style: Europeans are known for being stylish, and while there’s no need to try to “blend in” with the locals, try to put some thought into your attire. Instead of your favorite jeans or athleisure wear, try to pick clothes that fit well and may be a little smarter than lounging around the house clothes.
[Photo Credit: Alicia & Jay via Shared Adventures — read about their family adventure to Greece here!]
Greetings: Similar to Southern and rural areas of America, it’s always polite to greet the people inside a building when you enter. A simple bongiorno, hola, or hallo is important when you enter a restaurant, café, or small shop. In some countries, like France, it’s extremely rude to start any conversation without first saying bonjour or bonsoir. So when in doubt, give a greeting!
English: While most major cities in Europe have a large English-speaking population (particularly in the public-facing sectors), it’s more polite to ask if they speak English before launching into what you want to say. Ideally, you would ask “Do you speak English?” in the local language. But, if you don’t know how to say that, a simple “English?” is still more polite than assuming they know.
[Photo Credit: Ann via Shared Adventures —read about her trip to Tuscany here!]
Central Europe: Punctual, Polite & Formal
France, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Czechia, Poland, Hungary
Be on time: Punctuality is taken seriously. It’s rude to be late, so it’s best to be on time or even early to any pre-arranged meetings, tours, or classes.
Table manners:
Wait for the host to start the meal in Czechia, usually with a cheery “Dobrou chuť”.
In Hungary, don’t clink beer glasses—a local historical taboo.
Money matters:
Use both hands when exchanging money in Czechia.
Germany and Switzerland prefer cash for small purchases over cards.
Use formal greetings: In Germany and Czechia, use titles and last names. The formal “Sie” is preferred over the casual “du.” And until indicated otherwise, you’re on a last-name basis.
Don’t be overly friendly: These countries don’t have a smile for every stranger they pass on the street. They traditionally aren’t extremely friendly upon first meeting and may take a bit of time to warm up. These countries view big smiles and excessive small talk as disingenuous. It’s considered more polite to be a bit reserved.
[Photo Credit: Nicole & Paul —read about their Paris anniversary adventure here!]
Follow the Rules:
Don’t jaywalk—seriously! Following traffic rules is a serious business, and things like jaywalking or crossing without a signal can come with high fines.
Respect quiet hours—especially Sundays and evenings in residential areas.
In Germany and Switzerland, following the rules is taken very seriously in all matters from recycling to road rules. Try your best to follow them.
Southern Europe: Warm, Social & Relaxed
Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, Croatia, Slovenia
Meals are events:
Don’t rush meals in Italy, Spain, Greece, or Croatia. They are social and leisurely events. Expecting waitresses to rush around for you will only lead to disappointment.
In Croatia, lunch is the main meal. It often includes multiple courses, starting with homemade soup. It’s polite to take seconds (so don’t overload your plate the first time).
Food etiquette:
Don’t touch produce at markets – point to what you want and let the vendor select the best option for you.
In Spain and Greece, meals are for sharing, and it’s very common to order food for the entire table to try.
In Greece and Croatia, it’s important to accept food and drink offered to you in a person’s home—refusing may offend.
Dress the part:
These countries appreciate modest and neat clothing, especially at religious sites (Greece, Croatia, and Italy). Don’t forget that some “tourist attractions” are also sacred sites. Dress modestly with covered shoulders and knees if you’re expecting to enter them.
Public Spaces:
Don’t rush—a relaxed pace is normal in these countries. Don’t expect quick service or the locals to be in a hurry. Don’t be impatient – learn to relax and go with the flow.
In Greece, pointing or showing your palm up (moutza) is considered offensive. Instead, indicate with two or more fingers.
Children are Part of the World – Families are important to these cultures. So, expect to see young children in almost every aspect of life, from fancy restaurants to drinks in the piazza.
[Photo Credit: Liz via Shared Adventures —read about her family adventure in Italy here!]
Northern Europe & Scandinavia: Modest, Private & Polite
Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Finland, Estonia, and the Netherlands
Value quiet and space:
Personal space and low volume are important in public spaces. Don’t be overly friendly and give people their space.
Public places should be calm and quiet.
Be punctual: Time is respected, especially in Denmark and Norway. You should make an effort to arrive on time.
Bikes rule the roads: Especially in Denmark and the Netherlands—don’t stand or walk in bike lanes! Treat them like road lanes and look both ways before crossing.
[Photo Credit: Liz via Shared Adventures]
No small talk: People are friendly but not overly chatty. Conversations tend to be direct and sincere.
Eco-conscious: Recycling is the norm, and nature is highly respected, especially in Estonia, Slovenia, and Norway.
Are you ready to enjoy and embrace the different cultures of Europe? Let us know — we’re always excited to help you plan a perfect European adventure.
